For many of us, family moments trigger memories of food and dinner tables. That’s certainly the case with me, with absolutely no indifference.

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I can always tell when my mother has cooked food in the family kitchen or has it been someone else stirring the cauldron. It is the smell of ghee roasted broken wheat for a lapsi, or peanuts for the sabudana(sago) khichadi or coconut and onions for her secret spice mix for curries. The scent alone delivers a rush of childhood memories for me.

 

Food has always been an important part of my family. But since dad was diagnosed with cancer few years ago, food had taken on an especially central and complicated role in our lives. The saltiness, spice levels were all heavily controlled. His incredible doctors had been in charge of deciding his food patterns along with his medications. But my mother, always ended up making specials for each one of us, not extending her favouritism or attention to either family members.IMG-20140511-WA0034

 

My mother was born and brought up in the heart of Mumbai adjoining one of the largest vending zones of Dadar. Her neighbourhood was a huge melting pot of cultures and food dynamics. She learnt many food items from them. Her best friend and then neighbour, was a Mangalorean. Her mother rubbed off a lot of her cooking traits on my mother,then.

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My mother did not start to cook until she was 25. In the beginning, it was very difficult for her and cooked very minimalistic and had a very peculiar style of Gujrati cooking, considering her background. Therefore, she had to take cooking classes to prepare meals for my father, who had great liking for good, wholesome and spicy food. After, discussing recipes with friends, office colleagues and her new found tutor, she developed a liking and soon started formulating her own recipes.

IMG-20140511-WA0043I owe my basic kitchen know how to my mother, who taught me literally how to hold a knife while I was all of 8 .Today, I am determined to preserve one of my favorite things in life – my mother’s recipes and the many childhood memories that go with it. One such memory is that of a ‘Sambar’. I hated it because that is one thing that she made the best. So then, why did I so hate it? Because, when she started professionally training herself under the guidance of a home cook, this is something she made four times a week, out of sheer desire of being appreciated for something so tasty and tantalizing. Initially the home would smell like a authentic restaurant kitchen, but over weeks and then months she almost drove me mad with the smell in our home. But today, I crave for that the most.

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Years later I got married and moved into our new home a few miles away from my mother’s home. Today whenever, we meet for lunches at her home, we request for the same mum-cooked meals that filled our home, then, with so many memories.

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Extracting this recipe out of her was the easiest, as she loves sharing her recipes. What was difficult was reaching the levels of her tasty, well balanced and pronounced ‘Sambar’!

Her version of 'Drumstick Sambar'

Ingredients

Drumstick – 1 no.

Shallot – 10 small

Tomatoes – 1

Hot green chili – 2

Salt – as required

Sambar Powder – 2 tbsp20130321_121813

Pigeon pea – 200 grams

Tamarind – 1 small lemon

Coriander leaves – a handful

Ghee- 1 tsp

Coconut oil – 2 tbsp

Mustard seed – 1 tsp

Cumin seed – 1 tsp

dry red chili – 1 nos

Fenugreek seed – ¼ tsp

Garlic – 3 cloves

Curry leaves – 5 nos

Asafetida- 1/8th tsp

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Preparation:

Cook the Pigeon pea by adding water until they soften.

Cut drum stick into inch and half long pieces.

Make 1 cup of tamarind juice with water.

Now in pan heat oil, add mustard seed, cumin seed, hot dry chili, fenugreek seed, curry leaves, asafoetida, until the mustard seed splatter.

Now add shallots and drumsticks and cook till done.20131224_231951

Now add the sambhar powder and salt and cook for 2 min. Now add a cup of water and cook for a while say 3-4 min.

Now add the cooked dal and chopped tomatoes and coriander, cook till the uncooked smell of masalas goes away. This is the only step which is an acquired sensory. As a rough estimate, lower the flame and let the sambhar simmer for 12-15 minutes. Jaggery has been deliberately omitted but a spoonful can be added, depending on your balance of taste.

My mother and I

Now, the question is where is the secret? The secret lies in not using store-bought sambhar masala but grinding one’s own and freezing it for its longetivity.

Ingredients:

Coriander seeds- 1 cup full

Mustard seeds- 1 tsp

Cumin seeds- 1 ½ tsp

Fenugreek seeds- 2 tsp

Bedgi chillies dry- 12 nos

A handful of grated and roasted dry coconut

Curry leaves- a handful

Asafoetida- 3/4th tsp

Turmeric powder- ½ tsp

IMG-20140511-WA0035Preparation: Dry roast all ingredients except the last three. Cool and grind with curry leaves, asafoetida and turmeric powder. Cool and store in airtight container.

Well, today the secret is out of the box and I assure the same scent that still has me smiling and asking for more!

One more piece of advice from her, “Make it a day before you intend to serve it and experience the flavour development, yourself”.

Now this can only come from an expert!

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Thank you Mummy for everything you do in your ways ! Truly indebted for a lifetime ! You are the best mother and an awesome grand mother. And you know I mean every word I speak.

Love you always !

 

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